Easy.
Hater Muslims, considering themselves uber-male to distance themselves from gays, which are seen as "weak" are bigger pussies than some of those gays.
I met Muslims who where all about respect to life, in contrast. That's also why they left their motherland and live a integer life in western countries. They don't even want to be integrated as much in the western Muslim community, like to live on modern principles instead, letting their daughters ditch the headscarfs...  

You just can't really lump gay people or Muslims or almost any members of any group together.
That's quite simple minded. In a world of growing complexity. Beware.