Quote from: bbigtart on February 19, 2023, 09:38:34 PM

My mother's father divorced when I was a toddler, in mother's arms.
And I was raised by step grandparents.
My memory is still sharp enough to remember that sad time.
Mother's father already has another partner as well as another child..
My life is tossing and turning without direction
Jealous of my friends and the happiness of a small child, invites the sadness back..
Father and mother, I just need your love, like my friend.
So far, I've never gotten it.
Now my father is gone forever, look at your son, father, now I am an adult and can find food for myself without your love.
Without you I can be independent, now my father has gone forever back to God's side.
But hatred for you makes me furious and I want to destroy everything around me.

And now, from the experience above, I always try to avoid divorce because it will affect the child's mentality.

When the ijab qabul or marriage occurs, that is where the responsibility of a father (wife's father) falls to the husband, so a husband must look after his wife as best as possible like a father, at the time of marriage there are also many temptations that must be faced together, many households cannot afford it. keeping this in the end divorce occurred. Currently, the divorce rate is very high, triggered by the arrival of third parties who disrupt the household, as well as factors involving family interference. Before getting married, you should understand both of them so you don't regret it later. I hope it lasts for those who are married.