Quote from: aanestic on April 11, 2023, 09:44:05 PM

In my opinion, the notion of having a specific reason to like or marry someone seems unnecessary. Relying solely on factors like beauty or character as a passkey in choosing a wife can be problematic. When we prioritize beauty, for instance, we may find ourselves in a predicament if we no longer see the same physical attractiveness in our partner. This can lead to feelings of resentment or even hatred towards the person. Similarly, relying solely on character can also have its downsides. A woman may initially pretend to have a good character in order to secure a marriage, only to reveal her true personality after tying the knot.

Instead, I believe that understanding should be the foundation of a successful marriage. When we truly understand and accept our partner, we are better equipped to handle their flaws, including potential character flaws, with grace and patience. We can also appreciate their beauty beyond superficial looks, recognizing the deeper beauty that comes from within. Understanding fosters tolerance and empathy, allowing us to navigate the complexities of marriage with maturity and wisdom.

In marriage, character is most important and should be considered more relevant to beauty, due to beauty will fade away while a good character will last forever. The problem you may have in this process is that Character needs time to assess, it can't be determined at first sight, where as Beauty will be there staring at you for immediate assessment. Beauty can be an entry point but when decision needs to be taken, Character should be taken more important.