Maybe you have skipped some of the comments where members suggest OP to hold his coins and invest for long time. You don't need to accuse anyone here, you can always give your suggestions no matter OP got his answer or not.
Always invest for a long time, that is the only suggestion from me. If you can hold your coins for a long time you can make profit.
But if you read carefully what the OP said, she needs money to raise her children, and it is an urgent need, so it is up to her to hold or sell. I still prioritize parenting, and if she doesn't have a solution to that problem selling bitcoin is the right thing to do. I know she is very strong because she does not want to depend on her husband. But do not invest with money to raise children because bitcoin is not an easy and quick place to make money.
I agree, I had the same thing with my family as well, I held as long as I could and when there was a hospital bill to be paid, I sold all my coins without thinking twice about it because that's how you do it. I personally agree that it is not going to be easy to find a solution to it considering all the trouble we had, but that doesn't mean that we should be avoiding it anyway neither.
I hope that it gets to a point where it will be much better for all of us and we won't need to cash it out. But, if we ever need to cash it out for our family then there is no discussion for me, I will just sell all of it. There are priorities in life and family is much more important than getting rich, sure they would benefit if you get rich, but no reason to put them in poverty until you do.