Quote from: swogerino on June 16, 2023, 02:21:27 PM

I got married in 2018 and let me say I had not that stable finances but I was lucky to have a home passed down to me as a gift and that kind of gift gives you enough space to start a family even without much financial stability.I got a credit for about 15.000 EUR to furnish my home and I still have now about 2-3 years almost to finish it,so I am lucky to have been doing it.

In normal conditions you marry when you find the person that has the same objectives as you and you buy a home with mortgage and work together to finish it,meanwhile creating family and being a better citizen which gives the contribute to the world,i.e you bring up 1 or 2 babies in the world.As a single person there is no exact moment to marry,you marry when you find as I said your life partner,that person when you don't need much time but you soon realize that he/she is the one and marry,everything else come together after it as I explained above.

This was more or less my situation.

I didn't have a stable financial situation when I met the girl that became my wife. We were both students and we barely had any money. We were living in a rented flat, getting tuition and working part time. Fortunately my parents were sending me some rent money every month because without it we wouldn't be able to eat healthy.

When we got married it was much different. I already had my bitcoin savings so I felt secure. My wife had a full-time job and I was working part-time. We've decided to rebuild an old abandoned property in the woods that my parents used to treat as a summer retreat, so we had our own place without having to take a loan and a few years later there was already 3 of us living there

Don't wait until you have a lot of savings, don't delay things because there's never going to be a perfect time. If you wait for too long you're going to miss your chance to start a family.