Quote from: Jody.Drummer on June 17, 2023, 08:11:21 AM

Actually this is where the real challenge is, I mean when a gambler becomes someone who gets angry or emotional easily, we must have patience, because otherwise we will definitely let them be more because we are afraid that we will be carried away by our emotions too. Handling people who are addicted is not as easy as imagined, we have to really sacrifice extra and slowly to understand what they want first. Because if we immediately impose our will then it will not reach a point where they will understand and realize that we are helping them let go of something that is excessive in them.

That's why we really need good self-control so we don't get carried away by emotions because those emotions can come at any time, especially if we have lost several times. Many people have finally lost self-control because of increased emotions and try to increase the bet amount just to win. It is highly not recommended and if we feel that our emotional level has started to rise, we should try to rest and take a breath so we can calm down. Meanwhile, people who are addicted to gambling are not easy to handle and that is why they need to invite other people with them to prevent people who are addicted to gambling from losing self-control. We can't force those addicted to gambling, but we can approach them slowly and start helping them until they can open their minds that they need help.

Quote from: Docnaster on June 17, 2023, 08:58:57 AM

Sometimes when your relative is into gambling, you will not even know but outsiders will be gossiping about it and it is only someone that loves you that will bring the information to you. Especially as anyone can easily gambling with their phones it will be difficult for anyone to know who is gambling or not.
But advices making you to understand your family will go along way to curb addiction only if the person cares about their family.

We should ask our relatives if we hear about the gossip because it will be better. We can hear the story directly from our relatives so that we won't be wrong in knowing the real story. Maybe we can only see from the habits of family members so that we will know if changes have happened to them. Once we know that, we can approach them and talk to them and who knows, it might open their mind to want to tell the truth. Maybe that person will hear our advice more because we can approach it kindly.

Quote from: Pamadar on June 17, 2023, 10:37:00 AM

Indeed, if we know someone who is suffering with the kind of addictions,

Our first reaction is to find ways on how we can help them, even they are not asking for it but the concern for us knowing that
they can ruin their life will push us to try encouraging them and accept the assistance that we wanted to provide, to the extent
that we will continue making our ways to make them realize that they needed to re-assess whatever they are suffering.

We will try to approach him to ask the truth to find out how to help him. But that will depend on the people we are going to help because if they still insist they don't want to be helped, we can't do anything either but we can still be with them so they know that we are with them.

Indeed, it is not easy to approach someone who is used to gambling, let alone being able to give advice to him. If they don't want to accept it, we can even fight with them and they might stay away from us. That's why we must be careful in approaching him and use ways that won't provoke his emotions.

Quote from: GigaBit on June 17, 2023, 10:44:51 AM

In gambling winning is a big factor. It is completely unreasonable to expect a big win in gambling. Because gambling is a matter of luck. If gambler's luck with him then it takes no time to succeed in gambling and if luck does not favor then there is no option but to lose. As victory and defeat are uncertain, no one can be sure what will happen in the coming days. But if gambling can be conducted regularly within a certain limit without becoming addicted then it can be called decent gambling. A gambler must keep in mind that the more he conducts betting with the aim of recovering his losses, he will lose more. The real target of gambling should be to enjoy only in the purpose of pleasure.

Yes, we really need luck in gambling but unfortunately, we will never know when that luck will come. We will only find out after we have finished playing and if the result is that we win, regardless of the amount, it means that luck is with us. And we can't hope we can win again in the next round. But if we lose, it means we don't have luck, so we have to stop playing gambling before it's too late to do it. A gambler doesn't need to recover losses because it's difficult. After all, we will also need a lot of money and maybe it will exceed the previous amount of money. And the goal of gambling is to have fun; when it's over, we must stop immediately.