Quote from: maydna on Today at 01:54:25 PM

Quote from: summonerrk on July 18, 2023, 04:35:11 PM

Quote from: maydna on July 18, 2023, 02:43:00 PM

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I believe that in any conflicts and misunderstandings within the family or in friendship, or even with colleagues at work, conversation helps. Any problem can be solved if each person is honest and open with others, and most importantly with himself. Just say whatever's on your mind:
"I really have problems in order to stop thinking about the game,"
"And I seriously think that I need to invest a little more in games, and there will be a result,"
"I don't want to do anything, because I feel that there is nothing more important than gambling, because they can solve my problem."
It is such phrases that show that a person experiencing problems with the game is aware of his problem, and is ready to try to get rid of it, will be cured.

Honesty can help with the difficulties we face, but unfortunately, many people are not aware of this and do not want to be open to others. They tend to keep their problems to themselves and don't want to share their difficulties, so many others don't know anything. Others would know after the problem got bigger and it seemed too late to find a solution. But no matter how serious the problem is, if he wants to be honest, there must be a way out to overcome the problem. And it takes courage to be honest with yourself and others so that others can help find a way out.

On the one hand, what could be easier than to have a heart-to-heart talk with a loved one?
After all, your spouse will always understand you. This person lives with you in marriage, which means there was a moment when he accepted you for who you are. But unfortunately, even in marriage, many partners are secretive and keep the problems to themselves until the whole situation reaches a boiling point. To a greater extent, this applies to men, they tend not to share their problems, and even more so problems in gambling. His uncontrollable addiction. Nevertheless, I am sure that many wives are attentive enough to distinguish the slightest changes in the character and habits of a loved one.
On the other hand, as men get older, they become more secretive about their problems. They can store their illnesses and problems right up to the trouble.