Quote from: len01 on August 09, 2023, 09:56:52 PM

Quote from: maydna on August 09, 2023, 02:18:53 PM

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we as ordinary gamblers may seem so easy to say about it all, but sometimes we must have had bad days, defeats come in a row, starting to get emotional and keep wanting to take back the money that has been lost without realizing its an addiction or if not because you've won big you can not self-control spending his winnings so feel disappointed and want to chase it again until it becomes an addiction.
gambling for pleasure indeed has to be done, but every person mindset is different, just like an ordinary gambler who enjoys every betting session to entertain himself. he always has good control, but for others, he may have a bad mindset or unstable self-control.

so wise advice if you just want to have fun do not give priority to gambling because one day it can turn bad or have other options to have fun with positive things.

I'm sure it has happened to some of us and probably still does today. It takes self-belief to get over bad stuff like that, and maybe if it happens to us again, it might seem like we really need a bit more rest so our minds can deal with the disappointment that's already happened to us. We still have to learn self-control during our break from gambling so that when we decide to gamble again, we won't experience the same thing.

We have to change the previous mindset, and through adequate rest, we learn to have a better mindset about gambling. Perhaps later, we will just have fun gambling after that break so we won't experience events that can cause us to experience disappointment as before.

Quote from: Pamadar on August 09, 2023, 10:27:42 PM

Quote from: maydna on August 09, 2023, 02:18:53 PM

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Yeah right, if you will be able to control that greed and most of your emotion while playing the chance is better, you will not just enjoying but a chance to win decently is also possible.

Unlike with those who engage that much, control is no longer in their hands. That's why they keep aiming for
more instead of being contented and happy with what they've already got, gambling is addicting and, if you
got engage it will harm you completely.

Greed is indeed difficult to overcome, but by learning, I think we can control it and not play gambling just to indulge our emotions. Those emotions will increase along with what we experience or get in gambling, and we don't want to get disappointed like before.

For this reason, we must have better self-control in the future by continuing to learn. Refraining from gambling for a while is a way to have better self-control.