Quote from: Westinhome on Today at 01:07:03 PM

Quote from: maydna on August 23, 2023, 03:48:14 PM

All family members behavior can be detected from what they do daily, which is starting to be different from usual. And it will be the job of the other family members to start approaching him and asking what's wrong with him. It's just to make sure that he's okay, and usually, if there is a really serious problem, he will tend to do something unusual that can confuse all the family members.

This is the importance of us being able to take care of each other so that we can immediately assist a family member experiencing problems. We don't know how they socialize outside because if they are young people, they don't want to be exposed to too much social exposure by their family members. And today's younger generation, accustomed to technological sophistication, can use it for their needs and even gamble easily using their cell phones outside the home.

If the family members was found involved in gambling,the first person to oppose will be your wife or your mother.The gamblers attitude will be changed when he involved in the gambling,first he reduce the amount of money he giving to the family.By this the family members will think where he spending the money.At first they will check the gamblers spending money on any bad habits like drinking alcohol and smoking.If they find so,he will be escape from the family members.Because the family members will not check further,incase the gamblers don’t have any habits.Then he will easy find by the family members about his gambling activities.

Though I don't completely understand perfectly what you meant, but let me say that, as a gambler, your family finding out you are a gambler or not solely depends on you and your attitude towards them, using myself as an example, I've been gambling way before I got married, though it's not been regular, I became more of a regular gambler since the begining of 2022, but then, in all of this year's, my wife and kids have never for once suspected me to be a gambler, and that is because I never gave them a reason to ever suspect me, so my gambling life have been really peaceful.

As a man, there are some thing you don't let your family know about, cus they know, you will either have to stop doing it, or be ready for fights every day, most especially, when the woman ask for anything and you refuse to give to her.