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Yes you are right that mate cause once a man or a woman involve in gambling and they don't have responsibility the there's a chance that they will get into addiction cause we all know once they played and win a good amount they will bet again and again. But those people who has responsibility and self control then after spending their money neither win or loss then. They will stop Ang come again nextime.
That happens if they don't have responsibility because they can easily become addicted to gambling. This will happen to both men and women, and when it happens, they will only think about gambling non-stop, and if they have money, they will continue to gamble. Whether the result is winning or losing, it doesn't matter to them because they just want to continue gambling. Maybe they will rest for a while after winning, but they will come back to gambling again. So self-control and responsibility are really needed when gambling so they don't experience bad problems.
To be able to achieve this will be very difficult, but once it reaches that point, I think everyone will be able to control all their emotions.
the most difficult thing to do is to reject one's own desires.
rejecting other people's wishes will be much easier.