Quote from: len01 on October 18, 2023, 08:54:54 AM

if it was all about fame I would say that it is a very bad way to gain fame but he humiliated himself in public without thinking about the long term risks he would definitely be bullied for posting a video of him crying because he lost a bet or in gambling meanwhile, there are lots of gamblers out there who laugh at this woman behavior because its really funny when she loses and cries like a child losing her candy.
such behavior should not be done just for the sake of fame and if she wants to gain fame it would be better if there are still many ways to gain fame by showing her gambling activities because it is rare for women to gamble on sports betting and she will definitely get more positive fame.

Yes, she has used bad methods to gain popularity because she revealed her bad story in public without thinking about what she and her family would experience in their daily lives later. There were people who would recognize her as a bad gambler who couldn't control herself in gambling so they would distance themselves from associating with that woman. We will not overreact to the video because we already know that losing money is a consequence that we will receive in gambling so we continue to limit ourselves so as not to suffer a big loss. She shouldn't have to show herself crying in public but could tell people not to gamble excessively and within reasonable limits.

Quote from: beerlover on October 18, 2023, 05:25:25 PM

Isn't that the story of sore losers. I mean we have seen a ton of people in our life that lost something because of their own mistakes and instead of learning from it as a response, they end up crying about it. I have seen even people who cheated their spouse and then cry about being divorced, dude you shouldn't have cheated then, not like this was a shocking response to it, you made it yourself.

I believe that we are going to end up with a lot of people who lose at gambling and cry over it, this lady wasn't the last one and I am guessing that it wasn't the first one neither, it's just the way some people are. I have lost and cried before as well, to be fair I was in my room all alone, but I did, nothing like big scene type, just some drops from my eye type, because I was scared and made a stupid childish mistake of losing a lot of money that I shouldn't have, but I learned from it and never made that mistake ever again in my life at all.

Maybe it's like that but we also don't know her motive for showing herself to be sad because of gambling. But maybe she likes to show what happened to her so that people can find out and be curious about what happened to her. Now many people show what they do and upload it to their social media. And if they experience something, they want sympathy from people but if they lose gambling, they will not get sympathy but instead they will probably get condemnation because they cannot gamble responsibly.

We can cry if we experience loss but not by showing it in public because that would embarrass us, especially if people know us. They will say bad things about us, eventually discovering that we often gamble and experience losses. It's better for us just to keep it hidden rather than show other people what we experience in gambling because maybe later, there will be misunderstandings between us.