The willpower you just mentioned is so powerful to the point that if everybody has it, then the therapy and psychiatry industry would be so poor. But unfortunately, the reserve is the case in our society, people often do not fight for it or train themselves to maintain the sanity that will help their willpower to grow.
Agreed. Everyone possess willpower to varying extents. The majority have weak willpower leading to regular issues like gambling addiction etc in their day to day lives while the minority have great willpower who live their lives successfully.
The psychiatry and therapy industry earn huge amounts thanks to so many people possessing weak willpower.
With different principles with their own beliefs they do it on their own accord, there is no coercion, so if they are addicted it is also because of their own actions that make them become addicted to gambling, it is unethical if they blame others. They also want success, but they combine these two things and this is wrong, they want success but they gamble. It doesn't sound good like this. I don't think they would be successful with gambling if they were just players. The majority of them choose gambling as a shortcut to success but it doesn't work and it hurts them. So I think they should gamble reasonably don't expect more from slot gambling.
Well, let's just say that they are unlucky, because if we talk about being successful through gambling, it is absolutely possible, very many lucky gamblers have made good money from gambling, atleast, I have one guy here in my area who is a millionaire today, he made his first tens of million in our local currency through gambling, and today, he has built businesses and fetch him alot of money on daily basis.
He is still gambling but no longer depend on it for money since he's businesses brings him far more profit on daily basis, but then, the fact remains that, he became what he is today through gambling.
So, yeah, gambling can indeed make someone successful, but then, the gambler have to be lucky.
It's rare for someone to be successful with gambling, if like you said that maybe he's a person who has strong luck in gambling so that he gets a big win until he can start a business that produces, of course this is a good thing, even so I don't recommend this as motivation because in gambling which only relies on luck so I don't think "he just succeeded by gambling, I can't", because luck will only give victory, so it's better to gamble reasonably, don't go overboard with gambling because you are motivated by someone. It could be that other people are successful at gambling but we are successful at work and vice versa.
Well, I said what I said, and shared the gambling experience (in terms of finding success in gambling) of someone I know, I never meant it to act or serve as a source of motivation to other gamblers to start gambling irresponsibly, even the guy I talked about never gambled irresponsibly as far as I know, he was just purely lucky.
Gambling irresponsibly will only lead to loses, and even more loses, because even when you manage to win, you probably will still invest the whole winning back into gambling and lose it all back, this is what irresponsibly gambling does to a gambler, aside from other vices of misfortunes that also accompanies irresponsible gambling.
So, for me personally, I believe a responsible gambler stand a better chance of hitting success when it comes to gambling, and saying that it's rare to find a gambler who is successful, that is a lie bud, there are alot of successful gamblers out there, the fact that it has not worked out for you or for me is not a reason to believe otherwise.