Quote from: Iroh on Today at 11:36:36 AM

Quote from: junder on December 10, 2023, 11:09:52 AM

In my opinion, it is natural for parents to spoil their children because it is the right of parents who want their children to be happy. It's just that if they are spoiled excessively of course it's not good because it's likely that later they will depend more on their parents, by never having their own responsibilities, and of course this is not good.

I also don't think I can blame the parents entirely, because it's a common thing for all parents. If the children have a good mindset, maybe they can reject the spoiled actions of their parents and learn to be independent. So if they themselves have their own sense of responsibility I think they will learn everything independently.

How a child turns out to be later in his adulthood majorly has to do with his upbringing. And it’s the job of the parents/guardians to bring the child up right and straight.
It’s not natural for parents to spoil their children just cause they want their child to be happy. Parents who needlessly bend over to make their child happy always is cultivating irresponsibility in that child.

How can a child suddenly have a good mindset? When the child has been used to the good life, getting and fulfilling whatever desires that comes to mind. How can that child suddenly start to reject all the luxury given by the parents and strive to live responsibly and independently?
The parents of a child are a huge influence on how the child later turns out to be.

Impossible! the right answer to your questions. no way for a child to go against the luxurious training parents offer to him. Isn't it obvious that every human wants to appear good and luxurious? Tired rich men don't get moved by that lifestyle anymore, but kids are moved to enjoy the same lifestyle especially when sponsored by their parents. It's rare in most cases to find a child that'll do what Junder said in his response. But, if a child is superb enough to break free from all those lifestyles his parents feed him, he'd be successful in money management, or unsuccessful if his parents don't like him for his actions. Naturally speaking a child is what his parents teach him from childhood. The role of the parents consists of a high percentage of the child's adult life. Adults who visit places with different cultures and traditions can draft out a better way of living their life, but his beginning will hunt him. Blaming the parents isn't required in this situation, but the future of the kids is what presents a shame to most families.

Good-mannered children can come from a well-disciplined home. But a luxurious home consists of wayward children. Who rarely care about the condition of other people in their life. Figuring out a parent who is spending much more in maintaining a luxurious lifestyle for their kids and still controls them to be disciplined, would be the most tedious work in the world. As such kids will have a difficult time learning a disciplined lifestyle. Companions of luxuriously trained kids are mostly arrogant. Growing up with an arrogant attitude explains the home of the child. Some get discouraged by their parents not to set up a business. The cool-headed child who wishes to be disciplined and doesn't follow the training of his parents hardly gets supported by his parents, in terms of business. Such parents want to do it all for their kids, which ends up ruining the future of those children. Most of them fall back to the middle class or lower class.