Quote from: Silberman on December 17, 2023, 04:57:41 AM

Quote from: Lorence.xD on December 16, 2023, 02:51:13 PM

I think no one wants a partner who is addicted to gambling unless you are rich cause despite your habit, you can still manage financially. It would be better if you meet someone and plan to be in a committed relationship, try to change yourself first, cause I think it is been normalized that a man would rely upon their partner just to change their bad traits.

I am pretty sure that even those that are rich would not like a person with those kind of problems, and it is even possible they will despise it more than the average person, after all they know very well how difficult it is to make that much money, and having by their side someone that is wasting their money away in an addiction will seriously bother them, and it would not surprise me if it this eventually lead them to leave that person behind.

Do you think, Lorence.xD, a rich addicted gambler would be able to manage his fund? If you understand closely what gambling addiction is about, it only leads to loss of control, emotional trauma, and mental disorder. These things remove the self-control in the brain of the player. And all he could get a grasp on was wasting money on gambling. Nobody would be able to like an addict. Unless he's been regulated by close partners who now manage the money on their behalf. Communicating with a partner or the intention of getting married is worth it because the gambler would need help. Addiction to gambling doesn't make room for self-treatment. It requires an outside help from somebody else. Neglecting the assistance of other people only opens new chapters of addiction in the life of that gambler and he'll be undergoing severe pains while alone.

Loneliness helps a gambler to make casinos his companion and when not moderated, the player can get compulsive in gambling. The urge to hide the addiction from people or close friends only suffers the gambler when alone. Pretense flourishes in their mindset, thereby hoping to solve the problem without anybody's help. Therapists may try to help a gambler get healed, but the gambler can resist the therapist due to loneliness. They'll want to stay and fight the addiction alone. Hence, worsening the situation of the gambler to a more difficult state. At this point, he may not be able to hide the fact and his daily troubles could leave the person left behind by loved ones. So, I'd advise that gamblers should discuss first with a friend before entering into gambling. The difficulty of addiction doesn't escalate easily, it only grows gradually and if a person watches closely the behavior of the gambler he'd be able to detect that his friend isn't exhibiting his normal attitude. Then treating him would get easier, and faster.