Quote from: EarnOnVictor on January 13, 2024, 07:53:43 AM

Nothing should stop a good gambler from gambling again if they plan their gambling style very well. I do not entertain fear here as to stop because of winning, it is the mindset of the bettor that matters. A good calculation in gambling is also important and this must be cordial with the betting style of the person and with a very good mental state. Once the three can agree and the bettor is not thinking of huge money to gain in every bet, everything is going to be fine. The fact that they believe they can make huge money in gambling is the beginning of their problem and if not cautioned from the beginning, it will aggravate and the end is not always good.

As you said, it is good to view gambling as a means of entertainment and not a means to make money, anything short of this will not end well, it has to be lightly taken in our minds and not the way most people take it. If it is taken that way, who knows, a big win could come from it. But the gist and the most encouraging part is that the bettor wouldn't have put his mind there, so nothing would be pushy due to his betting mindset. And when the good gain is hit, it will just be a surprise and I still implore the bettor to take it easy at this stage of winning so that emotion will not set in and greed will cause all the won money to be lost again. Such should continue with the entertaining spirit and continue to have fun at the same time even as any winning games will continue to show once in a while without the bettor pushing it too hard.

If they could realize that something had changed about them and that it was not good for them, they should have tried to start reducing it before something changed. Those who believe they can make money from gambling will not give the results they want because it is gambling where there is a loss that is always waiting for them to take their money. Those who don't want to understand this will experience many losses and won't be able to make any money. Continuing to gamble without stopping will turn them into gambling addicts who can get worse and can no longer be stopped because the temptation of gambling will become stronger.

That is why we must be able to make gambling entertainment so that we will not lose a lot of money and can also prevent gambling addiction. Gambling can bring joy to them, but they must remember that this joy can disappear at any time and be replaced by sadness because of the loss of money, which can become bigger if they still cannot control themselves. They really have to change their mindset so they don't think that gambling can make money. They should be able to forget the desire to use gambling as a way to make money and make it a way to get entertainment and once they get it, they should stop as soon as possible.

Quote from: Dewi Aries on January 13, 2024, 05:55:20 PM

In my opinion, winning should not be made the main goal and focus in gambling because this point of view is something that is always the starting point of many problems that are likely to occur, starting from the wrong point of view which ultimately makes them gamble in the wrong way, such as forcing something (winning) too much, I understand that there is a possibility for the chances of winning to become a reality but all of that is out of the gambler's control, you can't force it by doing a lot of experiments because obviously there is no certainty whatsoever for winning at the end of the session, we can see a lot of gamblers who are stressed and I say that because they put too much hope and high expectations on gambling which ultimately makes them feel even more disappointed when the final result turns out to be losing again.

So for the problem of winning I think you can only wait for it without the need to force it by doing some careless or even stupid actions that you think can increase the chances, the way gambling works is not at all what you imagine, and what you do is nothing more than something out of hallucination that makes you seem to believe and believe but the final result slaps you again.

When playing gambling, we should not use gambling as a way to make money so that we will become eager to win. That will be difficult for us because gambling is not a job or a business that can make money. People who use gambling as a business should be aware of it immediately because it can make their lives a mess and they cannot recover their losses. There is a chance to win, but we can only force ourselves sometimes to win because it is difficult to achieve. We shouldn't have high hopes for gambling so that it will cause problems for us. By always limiting our gambling activities, we can prevent excessive gambling so that we will not experience more losses.

To get the win, we can only wait for the win to come by itself. We don't know when we will win so we are better off just gambling for fun. Loss after loss will come to us if we force ourselves to gamble continuously so that we will only lose a lot of money. This is where we need to realize that we cannot make money from gambling because a factor of loss will come so we can only gamble to get entertainment.

Quote from: Fredomago on Today at 06:53:07 AM

Good point! Better to learn from those mistake coming from other people, if you don't want to lose more money you should play with full resposibilities of your actions, there are people who intentionally playing just to kill some time and they are able to manage not to exceed from it, better to work with your limitation and not to follow the emotion to avoid getting too much engagements that will lead you to any type of gambling addiction.

By seeing and learning from other people's mistakes, at least we know how to be responsible for ourselves so that we won't experience losing money like them. We should gamble just to spend our free time while waiting for the time to do other activities so that when the time is almost here, we can stop our gambling activities and move on to other activities. That's the point of limiting what we do when gambling so that we can avoid the problem of gambling addiction that many other gamblers have experienced.