Exactly as I said earlier that it is really not recommended to put the goal on winning if you are involved in gambling, as you said and I agree that the fact is that gambling is not a generating activity like a real job out there, it is nothing more than a game of probability that gives chances to every gambler, we must remember and understand that it is nothing more than a "chance" without any certainty, so that means that it is not certain that you can make the winning chance come true, this result really cannot be forced because it will come by itself without knowing.
Every gambler should think and consider that it is not a victory but rather a reward for their participation, so obviously maybe you also understand that the name of the prize is synonymous with something that you can not always get. So the point is that forcing a win in gambling will only make you end up worse or that means it will only increase the amount you lose usually because gambling is not something that should be taken seriously but it is nothing more than a playground to get rid of boredom. On the other hand yes I have said before that maybe we can only wait for the victory to come by itself because we really don't know when it will come, so with this of course it is better to focus on applying boundaries and self-control rather than focusing on something that is not certain.
If more gamblers realized that they didn't need to set the goal of winning when they were gambling, of course, there wouldn't be as many gamblers who lost because they could understand that gambling is not a job that can make money. But gambling is an unnecessary entertainment taken too seriously. But the reality that has happened so far and perhaps will still happen in the future is that more gamblers will hope to make money from gambling, especially as they will more often see other gamblers making a lot of money. Such a mindset should have been changed after they read many articles or stories about the failures of gamblers who want to make money to prevent that from happening to them.
It would be even better if gamblers who could win only considered their winnings as a bonus because they had taken part in gambling, whatever the gambling game, so they would not think about trying to win other gambling games. They also don't need to force their winnings every time they gamble because gambling will not always give them a win but will give other gamblers a win. We can only wait for the win to come, but that doesn't mean that during that waiting period, we have to gamble more often, let alone use a lot of money, because that will only result in a lot of losses. If they are not ready or do not want to experience a lot of losses, they do not need to take the risk of gambling using a lot of money but only use enough money to enjoy their free time. After all, gambling is just an activity that can be done in our free time, while there are many other entertaining activities that we can use to get pleasure.