Quote from: junder on Today at 09:40:17 AM

Quote from: LUCKMCFLY on January 19, 2024, 09:03:26 PM

Quote from: junder on January 19, 2024, 12:07:17 PM

That's right, those who are addicted to gambling will not stop if they don't have self-awareness, and also they won't be able to repair themselves who are too messy because of their gambling addiction. The big mistakes that occurred were based on their own actions and behavior. It's true what you said, the first thing you have to do when you enter a casino is pay attention to the money you should not spend in excess of what you have brought or set aside for gambling. This can be done if they have good self-control, because if they don't have good self-control it will be difficult to do this. but in my opinion, those who gamble tend to become more stubborn individuals, because they will become selfish, wanting to always gamble which they really like.

Indeed, the main thing to stop gambling, I think, is to reduce the frequency of gambling activities, because if they immediately stop completely, I don't think that's possible, they have to stop gradually and start with small things, such as reducing the frequency of gambling, and setting that's on a budget. It's true what you said, those who are addicted to gambling will lose a lot of things, and what I'm really afraid of is that they could lose their family, because I think family is the most valuable asset, so if they lose their family I think they will lose their home to return to.

Well, I have always emphasized family because it is a bond that is very strong, things are always something that can be quite decisive, in the case of people who do not have a family, they can have friends, sometimes friends are person who are there much more frequently than the family itself, sometimes that happens, I refer to the fact of having a wife and children, I have always said that things when they are like this can be very enlightening, sometimes you can count more on the friends than with family, that is something that is true, and it is difficult to believe, but it happens, so these things are the ones that sometimes one must put himself in the right place, for example to stop spending money, to stop any kind of thing, money is very important, some say that without money you can be happy, but you can be happy without money if you get sick and don't have money for medicine? or to go to the doctor? Those are the things that are sometimes not measured, in casinos they remind us that without money we are nothing.

In a casino they don't appreciate if you are good people, in a casino they Appreciate if you have money to keep playing, and keep losing , that is basically sometimes the casinos take the powers to be there always present, in another order of ideas when we try to stop for some reason, because sometimes they are not available, and that is something that we must always review, as long as we have reasons to avoid a possible addiction everything is valid, there are many people who self-ban themselves within the casinos, saying that the ban them so that they don't continue entering or playing, because they know that they are susceptible and that they can make bad plays, waste all the money and be bad, but when they have the opportunity to stop it it doesn't matter what they do to stop themselves, it is something that I admire, there are many cases here in the forum that talk about that.

That makes sense, because I also often see and know someone's life, where they don't have a family for whatever reason, but what is clear is that they have friends who they consider like their own family so they don't have a home to go home to except friends In my opinion which friend you can rely on more depends on the situation. because not everyone can rely on friends, right? But what you say is true because I also sometimes take advantage of that, relying on friends for something I do. and also I've heard "the heart is happy even if you don't have money" as you said, this is true at a glance, but don't measure it first even though it's true money will fulfill what we want and it can make us happy, and so it is in casino, when we have money we can be happy, but when we don't have money then we are nothing.

Yes, that's true, in fact I think it's not only in casinos, but sometimes it's like that in the environment too. When we have money we will be considered, and when we don't have money it will be difficult for us to be considered. This makes money an important thing in life or in a casino. If you understand that, I think it is everyone's choice because maybe there are people who forbid gamblings but if we really have money that we are ready to lose to gamble then there is no harm in gambling.

Yes, basically things are the same, firstly, it is not that we need money to be happy, yes we need it, but a lot, because if there is no money there is no market, there is no medical attention, there is no attention, comforts and things like that for the style, but in the case of my friend, something very strong happened to him, his wife who had been with him for a whole life, 23 years living together, and today to tomorrow she tells him that she went to the USA ? How would that feel to anyone? hard right? He has taken great refuge in me, in my family, because he is a good person, he is a person who counts on him for whatever, how could he not help someone like that? So this type of thing where he discovered that his own wife stole him and left for the USA, like that, and from here to the USA is very far, that's when you say, who do you really have? Sometimes the family can give you a big blow, without anesthesia, and you have to pull yourself together, because life goes on, it's hard, but sometimes it's necessary to get up to move forward.

This also applies to projects, if you start saying your projects, many people are envious and those energies will not allow you to emerge, those plans will probably fall , because sometimes there are people who with just the pure thought can damage anything , now if we leave At the casino level, where you make friends, and where there is always an interest in everything, if you are a good friend, it is because you help Someone else win, or maybe you give them money, but what happens when you can't help a friend? , or tell him that you don't have money to help him in his game? what will happen? it will stay ? or will it go away? maybe he will avoid you? I have seen many things where it is like this, so basically it is unfortunate but the people with money are becoming more selfish every day and the people who do not have much money are the ones who help others the most, and this phenomenon is also seen in the casinos , when they are physical Casinos.