Quote from: odunybiz on Today at 07:35:34 PM

Quote from: Majestic-milf on January 02, 2024, 03:21:49 PM

My brothers and sisters for this kajad cabal I greet una and happy new year to all of us. I say make I table this matter for here and if say person don discuss this mata, my apologies as I no see any of such nature before I bring this one up.
Wetin make me dey ask this question nah say after observation, I discover how some newbies wey register here, after them don drop some posts and e happen say one of the posts receive backlash, you go see say gradually, that user go start to dey scarce for here and before you know e go twy before you see them.
So I wan know from us, wetin we feel say be the reason wey dem dey lose interest like that? Abi nah say some no fit stand criticism or here too hard or wetin? Abeg make we discuss.

This depends on your motive of joining the forum. If you are here to learn and contribute, you will definitely see criticism as nothing but most of this people were introduced to this forum as a way of making additional income. At first they think it's easy but after being criticize from their few post, they got discouraged and left. They have forgotten a post that someone criticize may be merited by someone else. This is because individuals comes with different though and opinions.

Only someone who doesn't want to learn, feels criticism as something bad whereas it's a way to actually develop and evaluate your flaws and mistake so you can take it to correction and help yourself. Once you start seeing criticism from this angle then I guess you would glad when someone even criticize you. The people that came here to exploit the financial benefits were having their expectations too high and that's why they got disappointed because their expectations were reduced as they failed to understand how the community operates.