Quote from: GxSTxV on Today at 10:41:48 PM

Quote from: SmartGold01 on January 10, 2024, 08:41:14 AM

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

Well, I think it’s just bad to even think not telling him and waiting our thoughts about this matter which relate you both only especially that it’s something not that serious as you described it, you are not an addict, understand how to gamble for fun only. So, In my opinion you should already told him as long as he is okay with gambling too and nothing forbids him from gambling, or it’s the total opposite? If your husband is religious and consider gambling as a sin and something very bad, then I suggest thinking more about a good explanation and how you both can find a solution to this that would serve both of you.

In your place, I have a girlfriend and in my first days I asked what she thinks of gambling, even though she didn’t gamble before, we agreed that we can do it together sometimes for fun. Already had few sport bets together and it was so fun watching the game we have bets on it together. I wish you go through the same and that husband accepts your activity.

It's better to tell your husband as soon as possible, because it's only a matter of time before your husband finds out and will be even more disappointed with you as a gambler, especially if you are addicted and spend a lot of money just to gamble.
as @GxSTxV said, by telling about your gambling activities, who knows, your husband will accept it and even be able to play together and have fun gambling. However, if on the contrary, your husband forbids you from gambling, then stop gambling.