Yeah, it's called periaqueductal gray synapse meltdown, or in layman terms, die hard bitcoiners letting go of their ego.
Won't happen!
Well if this is really the only reason then I think the problem is the mining community.
Because I think those are the only ones that will cry if block size will go up and fees will go down. Nobody else does really talk about this subject I think. Because I think you and me could also be called die hard bitcoiners with a forum membership of more then 10 years. The problem is really only that it is not really worth fighting for it. (Except you are a greedy miner

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