Quote from: ancafe on Today at 03:36:40 AM

Quote from: red4slash on February 15, 2024, 07:17:32 PM

Because we tend to always have the thought that youth is only once in a lifetime so we have to try all forms of anything that invites our curiosity without caring too much about the money we spend or not.
This is more or less the same for everyone who has ever been young because this kind of thinking is always there including for myself where the thought is still simple, the important thing is to be happy with the way we play it is enough for us.

But this is definitely not a good thing but sometimes we can't avoid it. It is not a mistake to enjoy youth by doing whatever we want but of course we also have to know the rules and should not be too liberating to forget that the hope of an old life that we have to fight for so as not to be in trouble.

There is nothing wrong and maybe that is how most young people understand the process of their youth and slowly if they are directed correctly then habit will make them change slowly. In the past, I was quite lazy when he asked me to develop someone else's business and I spent more time on activities that were far from productive. But slowly my parents gave me encouragement and support, so I decided to help the business that my parents were seriously developing.

The upbringing pattern and style of parents educating their children is also quite influential because I have seen many children succeed when they follow in their father's footsteps. Even though at first they looked so lazy and didn't want to work seriously. If at a young age we don't prepare this then how can we possibly live under pressure when we get married and have children later.

Well there is nothing wrong with that but on the other hand this also backfires and becomes a regret that cannot be eliminated.
I worked for a few years in a very toxic pressure but with a salary that was not even comparable to the work I did but because I had a pretty memorable work friend I stayed in that job for a few years but after I looked for a new job with a more decent salary I started to think that sometimes getting out of the zone that is not too good and trying new things is not a bad thing because in the end we can still enjoy the youth we want while earning more money from the work we do.

I agree with saying parenting in this case because indeed this also supports to make our attitude whether it can be more directed or even become someone who is wrong. the role of parents is important besides that the environment also cannot be separated just like that because after all, with the role of good parents and a healthy environment it will actually make your personality change and vice versa when the environment is bad and the role of parents who do not have good parenting, this will make the situation worse and make our attitude become poorly controlled.