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Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

Of course gambling will change a person's character and behavior. If the person wins then he will be happy and his life will be filled with pleasure both for himself and shared with his family and those closest to him, but if he loses he will definitely feel angry and frustrated, and this is determined by how he controls his emotions. good and natural or not. If he can accept defeat, perhaps only he will suffer the consequences, but if he cannot control his emotions, it could be his family and those closest to him who will be affected by the defeat he suffers. it's natural, like unclear anger towards one's own family and that is something that is inappropriate if it really happens in our lives.
So when gambling we need good understanding and self-esteem to prevent new problems from arising in our own lives.

Yes, I agree with you, even if they are gambling for the first time, it can change them. where the first time they gamble can make them addicted to gambling and as time goes by they can gamble frequently, this will also make them experience changes in attitudes and behavior, especially if their minds are already filled with winning at gambling, then It is very likely that they will experience changes in their attitudes and behavior gradually.

with gambling which has two possibilities, namely winning and losing, in my opinion these two things can make them addicted to gambling, over time they can become addicted to gambling, where in my opinion if they are addicted to gambling, I think they will have different attitudes and behavior. tend to be more stubborn, unable to accept reality, unable to accept advice from other people, even from their own family. and as you said, if they don't respond to gambling correctly then when they lose gambling it is likely that they will become emotional which triggers greater losses, so I think indeed gambling can change the attitudes and behavior of someone who gambles, but this change leads to negative not positive.

Gambling transforms people (no surprise). A trap that closes on the unwary. Consider that winning and losing is a mental rollercoaster that not everyone can handle. You're right about attitudes and behavior changing. Definitely, not just possible. After experimenting, they're in over their heads. True about stubbornness and emotional instability. Let's dig deeper. Not simply stubbornness, but a major shift in priorities. Their reality bends. Win or lose replaces right and wrong. They reject reality and guidance. This is the genuine risk, so we must take it seriously