Quote from: 0t3p0t on Today at 12:23:29 PM

Quote from: knowngunman on February 11, 2024, 05:01:32 PM

Quote from: AVE5 on February 11, 2024, 04:10:59 PM

I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.

Too many wrong decisions here. Firstly, you are not financially stable but you want to get married, who does that? I know that you don't have to be rich before you get married but being financially stable is very necessary. After marriage, you are not longer for yourself but for your family and you can not put their survival on mere hope of nobody knows tomorrow. Have a stable means of finance before thinking of marriage or better still leave that woman to who can take care of her.

Secondly, what are you holding for in the first place? Wait, don't tell me you invest money meant for your marriage. Holding should have a goal to achieve. If your goal is to get married with it fine but if otherwise, I'll say you have no plans on ground. Moreover, invest with what you can afford to lose has been on a trend for as long as I can't remember and not investing with money meant for things like marriage. For instance, if bitcoin should go down to $0 dollar today, your marriage money is gone right? You have a long way to go.

In short OP is not ready for marriage yet. We all know that marriage is liability and couple should know that before settling down. One or both partners should have atleast one stable source of income to avoid such situation wherein you choose the other option for your I don't know if OP mean money is for wedding day or whatsoever. We should be responsible for what we are planning to do in life so I hope OP will understand that.

OP also does not elaborate whether he is holding Bitcoins or what but let us just say he is, then there is no problem with that as long as they both have agreed on it. Since OP already has done what he think is good for them both so be it.

Even just using up your own common sense would really be able to tell you on who would be the one that will be having a good life when it comes to finances on which it is really that pertaining into those couples who do have savings or have already prepared financially compared into those couples who doesnt have income and doesnt have financial back ups on which it is really that something that could bring out a huge trouble on the time that you do both would be get married. Proper planning isnt really just that only good on marriage life but also in other plans in our lives as well on which you do came yourself prepared rather than on dealing
without having those back ups or plans because there's soo much different in between the two if you do ask me. If you arent that prepared on getting married so better skip it out but if you do already have those
plans then try to make yourself that be able to sustain and could really be able to provide on what are the things that needs up to be provided.