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It is crucial that we speak with them at the beginning so that they are aware of our activities and the kinds of vices or hobbies we indulge in. After all, there are no secrets that should remain hidden. We shall know what will happen at the end, which is why there are always regrets. What will happen when we cross our boundaries and engage in undesirable behavior, such as getting debt from gambling, because we will become used to it? Even when we bring problems to ourselves, our family and loved ones are the ones who support us and help us find solutions. Sometimes, they even become involved as a result of our careless and dumb behavior.

This is the main reason I would never advise anyone to be ever ashamed, scared or for any other reasons keep any habits a secret especially gambling because when the state of addiction, desperation or any gambling bad habits is popping in, we can't see it earlier but others do.
Also I can't hide anything I love just because of Fear or being scared of speaking about it to those around me

If you are afraid that your gambling habit cannot be controlled, you need someone to remind you of this because after experiencing an addiction to gambling and you cannot control yourself from gambling, of course this will make you experience financial problems which can make you unable to fulfill your needs. about the needs you need and this really depends on a person's personality, but people who don't want their gambling habits to be known by other people certainly have different reasons to what you have mentioned.

Yeah right, if you don't want to have that deep engagement that you can't no longer control better to have someone who knows your participation, from that point, there's someone who can remind you if you already exceeding too much and if you need some pause to rest out and re-assess your gambling activities, it helps you a lot in order to work your way to prevent getting involve that hard and become addicted which can cause you a lot of troubles.

Your decision making really matters and it will help you to find your confidence to allow someone to know about your gambling and how you deal with it.

Set your expectation together with the strategy and limitation which you share along with the person you trust that will help you to limit and not to continually exceed and lost a lot.

yea thanks God bless you because the fact is gambling is fun, wins and losts makes the experience exciting but its one of the most troubling addiction to fight against and I guess this is why most people see it as something evil whereas in everything too much pleasure is pain