Quote from: LUCKMCFLY on March 13, 2024, 07:13:59 PM

Quote from: junder on March 13, 2024, 06:17:02 AM

If you officially have a partner and are in a relationship, in my opinion everything should go through together, the ups and downs should all go through together. when we have a problem, we have to face it together, not just leave one party behind, just like when we win if we gamble, there's no harm in enjoying the win together, but only a few people can share when they have a lot of money, because most of them If people have a lot of money, they will forget everything and start looking for new things.

If indeed they separated because of money, perhaps there really is no love there, even though there is, that is not the main thing, because there are also people who love us because of our possessions, not because of what we are. If indeed we get a certain amount of money suddenly, in my opinion, it would be better to use it wisely and together, after all, if we prioritize ego, it will end in a bad way. It is possible that later the person who left with the winnings will return to his partner when the winnings are finished.

That's how it should be, but since we are in a world where the most important values are forgotten, it is very difficult to accept something like that. For example, if you have a partner, you are supposed to be faithful to her and she is supposed to be faithful to you, and sometimes things become in deception, currently with all the liberalism that exists it is easier to sleep with a person just for sex than for love, and if that is at that level it is easier to have a relationship just for "money" than for anything else, then they look for an excuse and they end the relationship, then the ways of thinking are no longer like before which were more conservative even with more respect, the course of life and people's objectives have changed a lot, this does not mean that all women or men are like that, but there are few who actually remain with their values intact.

I am a person who has always thought about that, but we have to get out of our environment a little to see how there is so much debauchery, thus producing sexually transmitted diseases, it is difficult to find a person who wants a lasting relationship, family and to get ahead. two supporting each other.

If there is an associated interest such as money, it is much easier for it not to happen, due to the different ways of thinking that exist , which is why choosing the person with whom you will have a child is very difficult, because you never end up knowing them well , because Although you live with that person, nothing more than what happened to my friend is a worthy example of things, 23 years with a woman, an established family and most likely he went to the USA with Another person, just because Maybe he promised him many things related to money and comforts that he couldn't have here.

It's very annoying if we have a partner who loves us only because of our money. Of course, finances are important when you are married, and in my environment there are many women who work, while the men don't work, so women have almost complete power. A family relationship can indeed fall apart when finances are in chaos, including getting a lot of money. If they inflate each other's egos then the winner will be separation, but if they can control their respective egos it is likely that they will not separate.

even though one of them leaves with a large amount of money, but you have to remember of course everything can change, there is a possibility that the other party can become successful and when the one who brought the money has started to go bankrupt the money he brought has run out and the other party is already in financial freedom then it could be that he returns to the other party because his finances are starting to stabilize, but of course if that's the case, I myself won't accept his return, maybe by saying hello that's not a problem, but if it's to come back completely and re-establish family relationships that's not the case. Possible. That's the importance of respecting each other, if everything goes through together then no problems will occur, but indeed finances can turn someone into a stubborn person or even think only of themselves.