Quote from: junder on Today at 05:26:06 AM

Quote from: Fredomago on March 27, 2024, 10:34:47 AM

Quote from: junder on March 24, 2024, 04:46:46 PM

I think everyone who keeps their gambling a secret must have their own perception and their own reasons. Like me, I hide my gambling because my family and my environment are not happy with gambling because there have been many victims who have ruined their lives because of gambling, but if you think about it, the ruin of life is not even caused by gambling, because in my opinion it is mainly their own fault for not limiting their gambling. So many people think that gambling is entirely a bad thing. I myself hide my gambling because I don't want them to know, because if they know, they might be disappointed, after all, I believe in myself that I can control everything properly.

I agree with you, everyone has their own way of doing what they like. I think if we do gambling and it doesn't harm other people, it's fine, unless the gambling we do affects other people or harms other people, that's what doesn't make sense. As long as gambling activities can be controlled properly, there is nothing wrong with doing it.

Yup, probably it's a choice or option either you would love to share that kind of activities or you want it to be hidden it's your decision to make and there's no one who can force you unless you are already showing some hints of getting addicted and you are losing a lot. Though I think those who chose their gambling to be hidden same as yours they are mostly protecting their reputation as we know that most people around loves to criticize and for sure most of us does'nt like to have that kind of criticism.

Indeed, it is each of us's right to hide it or publish it, it's just that we have to be able to see the risks that will occur with the actions we will take beforehand. because prevention is better than cure. Some gamblers who like to publicize their gambling habits may often get into trouble because if they publish it, of course there will be people who are not happy with the gambling they do, whether it's because gambling is a bad thing or because that person doesn't like us. and with that there can be arguments or conflicts.

It's true what you said, of course we don't like being criticized, because it's a bad thing and it can trigger conflict between each other. Therefore, perhaps it is best to keep your gambling activities a secret. Even though there are people who like to publicize their gambling, please don't copy it, because that's not a good action either, we have to be able to prevent problems from occurring. do what we like and if it doesn't cause harm too, but try not to cause problems for other people or for ourselves.

We can't deny that there are gambler who loves to publicize there gambling activities and they are not afraid of being criticize while there are also people who don't want to deal with any drama and just keep their gambling as discreet as possible, whatever the position there's always something that will be thrown, you need to take your side and just let it be that way.

It's tough when you are being criticize especially if you are not being use to hear bad words about you, though it won't hurt and nor help as it's your money that you are using and it's you who have that control with both your money and time that you'l going to spend.