Based on the statement from OP, he isn't financially stable, and he is very concerned about the income he is holding for his life. In such a situation, his wife isn't understanding him. This shouldn't happen, because he has been doing all this for the betterment of his family and not for his own. She should understand what he's trying to convey. When we're much into the crypto market, we should also know that market changes could happen anytime in any direction. Keeping that in mind, he should spend a little on pleasure, because if he ignores the anniversary celebration a few times, citing the market, then she might feel bad. Things need to be done in a way that shouldn't affect both their plans and expectations.
I didn't actually bring this thread up here expecting everyone to have an opinion that'd convey with my action of postponing my marriage anniversary because most of us have our different views just as different opinions of forum users has be raised on this particular ground. But I can say you're at the point to understand actions @n0ne.
Something everyone needed to ask was "if not for the market change, would I still had have the thought of postponing this event"? And the clarity response is yes because before the approach of that remarkable day, there had been an alarming inflation in my country which the economy system isn't adorable as usual.
So I had to cut cost my engaging to the opportunity with an exploration potentials so I we as a family can stand a chance to beat the economy situation. In a norms we're supposed to spend our money based on the current status and considering our financial sources of income. Honestly I'd had still have the money invested on other means with the potentials to yield more more but I was open minded sighting that Investing it on bitcoin would be much comfortable for me while I strives on alternative sources while life goes one and I also make counts of profits to my holding.
I had such impetus with the believe that opportunity to make money might come and such opportunities might not be made available again but wedding anniversaries would always come time after times.