Quote from: bbigtart on February 19, 2023, 09:38:34 PM

My mother's father divorced when I was a toddler, in mother's arms.
And I was raised by step grandparents.
My memory is still sharp enough to remember that sad time.
Mother's father already has another partner as well as another child..
My life is tossing and turning without direction
Jealous of my friends and the happiness of a small child, invites the sadness back..
Father and mother, I just need your love, like my friend.
So far, I've never gotten it.
Now my father is gone forever, look at your son, father, now I am an adult and can find food for myself without your love.
Without you I can be independent, now my father has gone forever back to God's side.
But hatred for you makes me furious and I want to destroy everything around me.

And now, from the experience above, I always try to avoid divorce because it will affect the child's mentality.

The increasingly high divorce rate is influenced by uncontrolled social media and also the influence of social media which is quite large, resulting in household commotion due to frequent communication with the opposite sex. , thus ending in divorce. When a divorce occurs the biggest victim is the child, they will bear an extraordinary burden even if it is so big that it becomes unmanageable, this is all the parents' ego. There is no family where there is never a commotion, so avoid personal contact with people who are not your wife or husband and also eliminate your sense of ego.