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Quote from: Lida93 on December 10, 2023, 11:55:58 AM

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

Smiles, seems like a job lol. If quitting is an option both short quit as gambling isn’t a means of income or survival. The family solely depends on both and if both gambles without limitation wether one or the other the family will still get wreck. The Husband might use the money meant for household needs to gamble likewise the wife using money for cooking or purchasing items, shopping for children to gamble too.

This could only happen when the person in question lacks self control, as well as the ability to get hold of their emotions, because if a gambler is in control of their emotions, it'll be very difficult to use money meant to sort another expense to gamble and hope to winning and replacing it.

Such a person would know that gambling isn't sure and anything can happening the missile of the game, winning isn't certain and the potential of losses are very much there.

we really need to be able to handle our own emotions because once you fall on what you feel, the barrier that you have created may be broken so that your own decision, financial securities and sound thinking are not affected because we know that one wrong move can lose everything. When we gamble, we always set aside other issues because we are only focused on our goal and it cannot be accompanied by other issues because it will be a reason for us to lose focus on gambling and lose.