Quote from: swogerino on May 25, 2024, 11:51:53 AM

I have crafted a pragmatic method for handling situations where colleagues request financial assistance.Utilizing a modest sum such as $100 I use as a benchmark for their dependability is shrewd.It affords me the chance to evaluate their integrity and reliability while also setting clear parameters for future interactions.By ensuring they fulfill their repayment obligations,I establish mutual understanding and accountability.This approach effectively shields against the possibility of burdensome relationships,fostering exchanges built on mutual respect and responsibility.

I had a colleague that asked $100 and I gave him the money.When he asked for more money I said to him,I can give you but first give me my money back together with the interest of each passing day that you have not paid me yet.

If they can pay back the money to you, that will be no problem but most of the time they will delay their payment to other and said that they don't have money and needs time to gets the money and then pay you. That will be a problem to you because that can gives an effects to your financial. If they wants to borrow money to us, we must knows that if they have integrity and reliability to repay the money because they have responsibility to repay the money. We don't have to be in a trouble situations with our friends and if we thinks that they can't repay the money, it's better we don't lends them the money.

When he already asked $100 to us and we gives that money but he asked for more money, he must gives the money back first with the interest. Then, he can asks for the other money to borrow but if not, we can't gives the money to him.

Quote from: Jody.Drummer on May 25, 2024, 12:18:16 PM

Yes, there is no sense of satisfaction for a greedy gambler or those who always apply greed in themselves when engaging in gambling, as you say that most likely they will only continue to maximize their gambling capital with the following intentions and goals in the hope of getting a much larger number of wins, and yes it is true that not a few of them always make loans as an alternative to funding their gambling activities, when in fact they themselves do not think about how they pay for it, but with the belief that they will definitely win then they do not hesitate to take some loans to other people or services.

And this is also the trigger why a gambler can fall into or get into debt. And it is a fact that once a gambler has tried borrowing money to gamble, it is likely that they will find it difficult to get out of the habit of borrowing, and the scenario is usually that they will borrow more money from other people with a larger amount and use some of the money to pay off the previous debt and some of the money to gamble and this is where various bad problems will occur that can cause significant stress, and this is also the reason why borrowing money to gamble is really not recommended.

Greedy gamblers will never satisfy with what they gets from gambling. They wants to gets more and more money but they knows that's difficult as gambling will not gives them the money easily. But if they lose their money in gambling and all of their money is gone, they will try to borrow money from other people. That's something we must not do because we already knows the risks if we lose that money, especially if we don't have money to repay it. Borrow money from other people is not an alternatives to playing gambling but that can makes you in trouble.

When gamblers fall into debt because of playing gambling, he will not thinks about how he will repay the money but he will try to borrow more money from other people and repay using that money. That will be a new circle to him as that matters will not ends if he doesn't repay all of the money he borrows.

Quote from: zuzie on Today at 07:14:28 AM

Yes by concluding your opinion above it is true that gamblers who are addicted to have many ways or reasons for others to launch their gambling activities such as an example of addicts who borrow money with the reason to find family care or reasons to pay for their son's school and of course there are people will help him because you have compassion because you want to help him.

Gamblers who addicted to gambling will use many ways that we can't imagine to fills what they wants. They will borrow the money from many people at the same time but they will not repay the money in a short time. They will delay the repayment and said many reasons and that will gives a problem to the lender. But if someone borrow money for fills his needs, maybe some people will gives that money because the money will not be used to playing gambling. They will have compassion with other people who needs helps and will try to support those people by giving the money to them. So we don't have to borrow money just to use for playing gambling because that can makes us in something that we can't imagine. Besides that, we must remember that borrows money for playing gambling will gives problem to us.