Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on June 30, 2024, 10:32:33 PM

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Personal losses + watching other people's successes = double the anger.

To reduce the degree of passion, it is enough to remove unnecessary variables from this equation - not to pay attention to other people's winnings. Personal losses are also eliminated, for example, by a temporary pause on gambling. When emotions subside, can return to gambling.

Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on June 30, 2024, 10:32:33 PM

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

To begin with, I will say that if this were my best friend, then I would only rejoice at his winnings. Even despite personal losses. Question to the author of that post: maybe he was never his best friend?

I would be frank with a friend. If my game was unsuccessful, I would pause and help my friend continue to win (or simply watch his success) by encouraging and warning against over-involved, which leads to losses..