Quote from: Stable090 on Today at 11:40:28 AM

Quote from: Majestic-milf on January 02, 2024, 03:21:49 PM

I discover how some newbies wey register here, after them don drop some posts and e happen say one of the posts receive backlash, you go see say gradually, that user go start to dey scarce for here and before you know e go twy before you see them.

Most of dem no really get orientation before dem join the forum, Dem dey reason say if you just enter and you post, then merit go Dey enter be that, and dem go rank up, but if dem post finish, and dem see say people blast their post which is normal on the forum here, they will be disappointed and most of them go give up, some go talk say dem no fit do am. But Wetin I go tell most people be say, no matter how dem talk bad about your post, e no mean say make d person give up, just ready everything wey everybody post, and make you try correct yourself, gradually you go improve.

Na just the thing be that, had it been dem get better orientation things for no end like that for them. This forum no de tolerate mistake and nobody care wether you be newbie or wether na your first post for the forum, dem believe say everybody suppose get sense say as them enter new place dem go first learn about the place before dem engage in anything na why dem no de tolerate mistake be dat and most newbies are not mentally prepared them no really de interested to learn dem just de find how dem go get merit make dem rank up and when dem criticize them they get discouraged easily.

Wetin dem no understand be say na knowledge dem need first but since dem no get orientation dem just think say na so things de easy for here, i believe say dem no ready na why dem de give up easily, nothing is ever easy in this life so you just have to be strong and dedicated if you really want to be successful.