The more active I become with gambling, the more it drags me back, luckily I keep risking only what I want to lose.
The less active I become with gambling, the more positive it gets for me, not most of the time but my results are simply better than when I was very active.
Yea sometimes its frustrating when you put your very best interest in what you do, yet it doesn't seem to go as planned , but you should know that gambling is not what to put all your mind In, because it's a game of luck and the risk of loosing out is high.
A friend who lives far away from me has also said the same, he got tired of gambling because it wasn't going his way but when he started talking it less seriously, that's when he started to get positive results.
It's not only a matter of what your friend said, it's a general thing that happens to Gamblers. And I guess it's not only gamblers but in every aspect of life. Whatever thing you do and put all your mind in, may never come to reality at that moment but later will, expecially when you are less concerned.