It is not always good to invest money excessively in the development of your child. I don’t know what it’s like to raise my own children yet, but I have friends who have been raising children for a very long time.
And they often say something strange to me: you need to live for yourself and not for the sake of your children. I think they mean that many people forget about themselves and do not spend money on themselves, but they need to keep their style and property at a high level.
Pampering children is one of the obligations of parents, but if you do it too much, it's not good because I think when parents pamper their children too much or invest excessive money in their children's development, they are afraid that the child will become dependent. Where many things have to be resolved with their parents, whereas in general it is better for us to be independent. Even though it is their right, there will be a lot of unpleasant talk if they are still dependent on their parents. I myself don't think about depending on my parents even though my parents are rich.
Different people's attitudes are a given, there are people who maintain their own level of style even though sometimes it is forced. And it's natural because I think everyone has an attitude of prestige that has been there since birth. However, the point is that anything done excessively is not good and is not recommended, so limiting everything regularly is something that must be done.