Quote from: Jody.Drummer on July 18, 2024, 10:56:53 PM

Pampering children is one of the obligations of parents, but if you do it too much, it's not good because I think when parents pamper their children too much or invest excessive money in their children's development, they are afraid that the child will become dependent. Where many things have to be resolved with their parents, whereas in general it is better for us to be independent. Even though it is their right, there will be a lot of unpleasant talk if they are still dependent on their parents. I myself don't think about depending on my parents even though my parents are rich.

Different people's attitudes are a given, there are people who maintain their own level of style even though sometimes it is forced. And it's natural because I think everyone has an attitude of prestige that has been there since birth. However, the point is that anything done excessively is not good and is not recommended, so limiting everything regularly is something that must be done.

The role of parents is indeed quite influential for the future of children, everything starts from education since childhood and indeed spoiling children excessively is a big mistake unless the child is still too young but slowly there will be a distance that requires the child to be independent.

Likewise in investing in children's education, we must see our own abilities and also financial capabilities to be able to complete it.
And regarding the limits of investment in children, I think it is not too excessive as long as it remains positive and still within our reach.