apart from what OP said I think we should not gamble when we are in an unclear state such as when we are feeling stressed because of the burden that occurs at work or others, because seeing gambling is a risky game then when we do it with our unstable state of mind it could be that the defeat that is certain to occur in gambling will only add to the problem by making us upset and of course it will provide pressure that can make us even worse, maybe excessive stress. Gambling should be done for fun, understand that losing money is something that is certain to happen, therefore, no matter what defeat occurs, try not to be an additional thought, because when we lose and think too much about it, what will happen is probably like what OP said, namely "getting back your defeat" this is just a path to destruction.
Your point is correct. But unfortunately, not all gamblers strictly adhere to such rules. The fact is that many of them start gambling sober, but when they lose, they lose control of themselves.
After that, such problem gamblers drink alcohol in the hope that they will feel better about the loss. And what's funny is that after that they go to the casino again, and lose even more.
The characteristic of a problem gambler is gambling beyond his financial capabilities or gambling beyond normal limits. They try and keep trying to win the bet, while they don't have time to think about what the next condition will be after they lose. Gambling that has been carried out beyond reasonable limits is never good, of course because of the impact on oneself and also financially.
There are several stages of addiction before a gambler is considered a problem gambler, but before that actually happens, the gambler should set boundaries and change his mindset towards gambling. Gambling is not a place to make money consistently, but gambling is a place that might be entertainment for those who are tired of their work.