Quote from: Obim34 on September 15, 2024, 08:42:31 PM

Quote from: MeGold666 on September 09, 2024, 07:04:11 PM

Sorry to hear that, I wish your dad a speedy recovery.

I don't trust even my own mother when it comes to money and I'm not leaving anything to anyone, if I die, crypto I hold will be gone forever. To each his own.
I'm a selfish bastard and I'm happy with that Wink

The most important thing I've learned in life is to trust no one, especially your family as they are the first to abuse the trust.
Seen too many people getting screwed by own family, not going to be one of them.

First of all, just seeing this from the OP, it's something disheartening to witness or hear about, my prayers be extended to your dad and I hope by now he must have been quite better since the creation of the thread.

Coming to @MeGold666, you have said according to how you see the whole case but I think on me it should be something not to brag about, if you check around every member of your family and can't find a single person you can trust then it's a big problem, which means even you is the same and likely no any member can trust you when it comes to finances. I think if any one should be proud of their family then I should be, currently I know my stance and who stands with me because with how far we've gone and what we both went through, he deserves to be trusted and I feel more at peace knowing that my whole assets can be extended to someone if it calls for my absence.

Thank you so much Obim and everyone else for all of your kind words. The last week or so has surely been crazy but I am happy to report that since I’ve come and gone from my home state where the majority of my family resides my father is doing much much better. The first day he could only still speak a few words and over last week I was able to see the progression day by day until my final day there when they cleared him for rehab. While I was there I was able to help my family gain access to my father’s accounts. I will say that my eldest brother and I took it upon ourselves to aid my mother with this- she was surely overwhelmed. I was able to find my dad’s whole life insurance policy and found a new line of accessible money without interest due to its cash value which will come to the rescue for my mom. My dad was just about to start a very high paying job but it was delayed due to city permits and that must have been causing him so much stress. He was laid off from a very lucrative position about 8 or 9 months ago just cruising collecting unemployment and now Medicare since he is of age. I do know that my parents took the J&J vac and I suspect that was the major culprit in this stroke, I told them not to take it. Alas my dad seems to be regaining his strength and only rehab and physical therapy can do the trick. As far as trusting your family family is all that you got, it’s sad if you can’t trust them but believe me I understand that background and I think everyone and every family has at least felt their portion of breach of trust. The very woman who was there as soon as I got there was my conniving aunt who stole the entire family fortune on my moms side and I told her to get the hell out as soon as I got there. Ugh. It’s something truly words cannot describe how much of a shit head she is and the manipulation to my mom her whole life and theft of my mothers inheritance from my fathers side makes my face red and smoke come out of my ears. However, my siblings and I and mother and father have all remained close for the most part and it not majorly together than at least close separately amongst ourselves with our busy lives that we live. It’s funny the timing because I already had my flight booked to come and see my siblings for this very trip but to go on vacation with them, this is our relationship and we trust eachother fully. Anyways, it’ll be a long road to recovery for my dad but I do believe he is getting better by the day and for that I am truly greatful to God and thank you all for your words of encouragement and prayers 🙏 please do continue to pray and again make sure your family is set up for success in this area.