Quote from: Cookdata on Today at 06:35:32 PM

Quote from: tottong on December 02, 2024, 04:04:56 AM

Parents must have the ability to predict the future of their children and as much as possible they can recognize the character of the child who has what abilities, in that way they can provide suitability to the child and it will be easier to direct their talents where.
If the child does not like doing business but the parents still force it, then most likely the business will not succeed and vice versa the business that was previously successful will not develop.
Children must be directed according to their skills and parents must know what skills their children have.
The mistake of our parents is that they direct their children according to their wishes instead of encouraging their children to the skills they have so that children are forced to follow their parents' wishes and in the end they will have difficulty achieving success in careers.

As long as you are just an ordinary person like me, I'm not sure it's possible for anyone to predict the future of children, you can only see the characters they have which as a parent you can make amendment, that's one of the purpose of the parents in the first place, reshape them into been good child while they are young since they can be corrected from that stage but you you should choose who they become, as a parent you can only lead them through a good path.

What every parent should do is to make support what they do. I will never spoilt my child with money but I will elevate the business or husle in ever way I can and I'm not doing that in anticipation of getting something later in the future because that's what some parent do this days, they are doing things for their kids so when they get to old age, they expect special treatment which is wrong. If you love your child and treat them well, they will never leave you behind.

It is not easy for parents to predict their children's future. Things that happen over time can change a lot. Parents can guide their children according to their talents, but after a while, children take the forms they want. Ensuring that children are directed to the field they want and providing them with the opportunity to develop their talents are behaviors that parents should do.

Parents should not have any return or expectation after the behaviors or help they give their children. The important thing is for children to grow up as good individuals and be ready for life.