You are really starting on a wrong note. There are people from less-developed nations on this forum and they are facing more terrible economic problems than Chinese citizens. Yet they have stayed in the forum and obeyed the no-begging rule. Most people who focus on seeking financial assistance instead of pursuing knowledge usually don't last long on the forum. They would end up being disappointed and frustrated. You will succeed here if you focus more on learning than any other thing. Insulting someone because of her comment is unnecessary, you have to grow a thick skin.