Quote from: danherbias07 on December 26, 2024, 10:08:55 AM

Quote from: D ltr on December 21, 2024, 03:53:56 PM

Quote from: danherbias07 on December 21, 2024, 04:35:10 AM

The same for me. There's nothing wrong in giving out some of the winnings but we must always think of our family first before we think about strangers. Will there be enough money for the family if I give a portion of this winnings? Will they even accept the fact that I have given some of it?
It's not wrong as long as it is sincere and you are not stepping on someone else. There are people who don't like being given such things or money because they feel like their ego is being stepped on and so we must be careful about the people we choose to give the "balato".
As a Filipino kid, this was already a thing for me, we play cards and when I win I will give back a part of my winnings to the kids who are cheering for me. It's a traditional thing that already happens even when you are young.

Everyone has their own characteristics, but you are right when you say that when victory is achieved, the family will enjoy the results, after the family is enough, they will give it to friends and relatives who are not in the same house as us, why must it be family because the family will accept us when we are in trouble and lacking, not friends or relatives outside the house

That's true. The first that will come to help is your family which is the biggest reason why they should also be the main receiver of our winnings first. Friends will be there but I don't think they will help you when financial problems come and there's a possibility they might even avoid you when you ask them for help. Let's face it, some friends are only good when you have something to offer but they will be gone once you are out of money. Cheesy

Your own family, on the other hand, will stick with you and they will find ways to help and understand your position. They will probably even take a loan for you just to get you out of the problem.

The family is the most important thing in a human life, when you have a family that stands by your side things won't be too hard for you because during the time of difficulties they might be there to assist you. However, not all friends are bad and not all family members are good, but the rate at which family loves each other can not be compared to how friends does. Reason why most families will be there for you is because they know you are there relative and you can also support them if they are in need.
Actually, many friends maintains their friendship because of what they benefits from each others and run away when things become difficult from the other end. So with all this, it would be very comfortable to share love and appreciation with family members and even though the winning is not big, sharing it with the kids might be fine.