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Quote from: rodskee on January 07, 2025, 09:27:53 AM

humans make mistakes and it is almost impossible to completely eliminate them from life but for you what would be more painful

1. you take a risk but it ends in a loss or;
2. you play safe but after time you see that you could have made profit if you took that leap

the first one could be more painful because you lose some money after believing that you could have find success in engaging in a specific project but the second one could also be more painful because you will be plagued with what if's but at least you would not have lost some money you just simply did not gain anything

what decision would be harder to live with?

Between the two, the most painful is option number two in my opinion. Because sometimes opportunities do not come a second time, and there will be a sense of regret for not daring to try. Usually this regret will always be felt throughout our lives in the future.

So I will choose number one, which is high risk and ready for losses. because we dare to get out of our comfort zone even though we lose everything. Because when we have a risk, we can try to minimize it. If a bad risk occurs, it does make us a little traumatized and it takes a lot of energy to be able to get back up and try again. This means that at least we have more knowledge and experience. Because by taking risks there will be two choices, namely success / failure. While not daring to take risks will stagnate.

Agree on this one on which you will really be having that long term or even they lifetime kind of regret on which you can't be able to forget specially if you do missed up that once in a lifetime opportunity or the amount is significant on which it will really be haunting you for the rest of your life.This is why on your life then it will be always recommended that you should do things and decisions which your mind and hearts or intuition tells you and don't regret with it on whatever the outcome would it be. This is why it's really that important that you should be wary on things on what you had been that dealing on with and never ever make yourself go look back if ever you do make mistakes, instead on bothering yourself then it's wise to move on and learn with those errors to make yourself way more better than yesterday's.