sorry for your losses, my info probably wont be of any help to recover your funds but i'll send you for curiosity.
edit : i wrote a huge pm and ended up getting roasted < User 'StealthsNet' has not chosen to allow messages from newbies. You should post in their relevant thread to remind them to enable this setting. >
I never lost anything.
My suggestion is if a service scammed you or someone close that you know, then why not share the information publically? Or are you scared of the scammers? It doesn't make sense just sharing the information in private. This is what is making us suspicious of you.