Quote from: Judith87403 on February 26, 2025, 06:36:23 PM

Of course as a man is a must that you will make the money because there are a lot of awaiting responsibilities in the future lets take for instance if the responsibilities is 100% obviously 90% of this responsibilities has to do with money. and if you failed to plain yourself very well before this time definitely it will be very difficult for you.

Exactly brother.

As a man, when we're single, we already have a responsibility to make our parents happy. This mean if we get paid for $1,000, we will not receive full amount, we need to give some to our parent, not to mention if we have sisters and brothers.

When we're in a relationship, we have a responsibility to pay everything in dating.

If we're married, we have a new responsibility to help our wives, parents in law, sisters and brothers in law.

Now, after we have a child, we have a new responsibility to fund the baby.

In short, we have a responsibility to help our parents (2), wife (1+), sisters/brothers (1+), parents in law (2), sisters/brothers in law (1+), baby (1+), at least 8 people. So if the minimum salary in your country is $1,000, you need to make at least $8,000+.

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Which is why most people always plan themselves in the early stage so that they won't find it very difficult in facing those awaiting responsibilities. Of course this process always requires a lot of sacrifices, maybe if you use to spend quality time with your friends, once you start this journey you will be surprised on how you're going to limit from them all of a sudden. You know sometimes those quality time we spent with friends is not even worth it.

Indeed, after I go back to my home from met with my friends, I always thinking what I was doing and what I got from that? many of my friends saying, don't be too serious for thinking about the benefit and competitiveness, but I guess chit chat and wasting time isn't for me...