Quote from: DYING_S0UL on Today at 07:25:49 PM

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Quote from: Lida93 on Today at 12:46:31 PM

Of a truth, no matter how much anyone may earn from a single income source it would never be enough to cover his overall needs and responsibilities but having to create other income sources with time will help minimise if not completely eliminate such insufficiency as it were. Additionally, having to live a life of modesty can be so beneficial and peaceful than anything in the world. Often times why we see people that earns so much but still living in debts is as a result of not living modest but overly flowery lifestyle. People with such lifestyles hardly make room for savings or investments, which is a life not worth living.

Some of my colleagues who earn far higher than me are deeply indebted. Some of them are in that situation because they spend more than they earn. I am not in by any means against living a good life but it should be done based on my own income. Spending so much money on things that one can live without is unnecessary especially when you don't have enough money to waste. They have mocked me for not buying expensive clothing or living in a highbrow area, but the good news is that I am not indebted and I am also investing for the future.

Buying expensive thingss, looking rich, and showing off don't define who you are or what class of people you belong to. In fact, the things you said are entirely true. I wouldn't buy something unless it was absolutely necessary! For example, if I had enough usable clothes, it wouldn't make sense to buy a new pair every couple of months. Some may call me a cheapskate for doing this, but I consider this spending money wisely. When it comes to luxury brands or expensive jewelry, I always try to avoid them if possible. I believe this hard earned money can be spent elsewhere instead. The more I save, the more I can invest! And when it comes to living a good life, I try my best in abilities...

Basically there's no shame in saying NO when it comes to pricing and buying expensive things but some people just want to impress or maintain some fake lifestyle just not to look poor for people that assumes them to a high level as very rich and balling type. But such a lifestyle leaves us without being able to differentiate between wants and needs, which is a very seamless way of going insolvent and broke like one who's doing 180 on a free wheel.