Quote from: GeorgeJohn on Today at 08:47:45 AM

Quote from: babo on Today at 07:11:31 AM

I cannot extinguish the love I have for my son or daughter just because he or she makes a choice that I don't agree with.
He/She should do what makes him happy, not what makes me happy.

As a father or mother, we are meant to teach our children the pathway they will benefit in future, children can be influenced when they lack advice

Allowing your son or daughter to make he or her decision to what pleases them, is good, but you won't allow them to make a wrong decision because it pleases them, what they think that will make them happy now can make them cry if it's wrong thing, so that is why you have to give your children reasons on everything you dislike them not to do...some daughters and sons emulate things that's horrible, at that period they're emulating such think, they may think it will make them happy..so we stand to correct our children for good things.

In fact, for important decisions, you just need to take your time, consult psychologists and take all the steps you need to take.
When a person decides to have a homosexual partner, for example, it is not a decision you make today for tomorrow.
These are long decisions that mature over time, not things you do in 6 months. But in years.