Quote from: Salahmu on May 02, 2025, 11:56:24 PM

Quote from: Obulis on April 23, 2025, 04:58:29 AM

Thinking that I would get a job immediately after
graduation from the high institution
Which seems like a fairy-tale based on nationality
and geographical location secondly.
Being afraid of doing mistakes is another mistake
I made

There should have been other bigger mistakes than this because to me I don't see a mistake there because there wasn't anything lost but on the contrary what you think is a mistake can give you a destiny helper, however a lot of the things I could have gotten wasn't because of mistake but it was because of not getting advanced to the minimum years they needed on the job so I just had to watch others having the job. Then the mistake I had wish to be corrected if not that is not possible is the acquisition of property because in my country is lucrative so i missed a lot of them without thinking about the future.

Hoping to get job immediately after graduating and being afraid to fail you say you don't see any mistake with that and that I should have pointed a bigger mistake.

First of all, when you say there should be a bigger mistake means they're actually mistake8 so you contradict yourself saying that you don't see any mistakes...
OK, about not losing anything?
How about the lost precious time, energy, probable unused and uncreated opportunities?

But then imagine such mindset and the disappointment that followed.. Psychologically, hoping to have a job immediately after graduation will make you not to cease opportunities as a student or even create one because of the helpless waiting for a job mindset that might have set in..
Also I guess you believe on not staying in the comfort zone right?
The FEAR OF MISTAKE/FAILURE IS AN ENEMY OF PROGRESS. It has kept so many in there comfort zone penniless, others in a toxic environment and this will be as long as.

A higher institution student hoping to get job immediately after graduating (don't forget location differences) and any one being afraid of making mistakes are big problem that can cause more harm than you think. It has left people in shambles and it Is still doing that.

To also say,
the circumstances you pointed about missing to buy some property because in your country it is lucrative (comfortable). psychologically, I can say it's the same thing as a student who thinks immediately after graduation they will get a job as per the waiting mindset that might set in and the inability to cease opportunities or create one without thinking about the future, just like you did not think about the future.