Are there women who share this perspective?
I've heard couples that are also shared the same decision of not having children. And it's a normal kind of relationship nowadays and all it takes is proper talks to your future partner.
Where or how can I find one? (I know this is bitcointalk not tinder hhh).
Start it out with your friends, friends friends and friends of your relatives. If you cannot find that through online dating then start with the approach of traditionally meeting them through common friends.
Why should the concept of commitment extend to procreation as if it were a natural outcome when we are the ones who decide that?
Yeah, both of you are still the ones to decide. Don't listen to others if they're telling you like you should have kids and it's lonely growing old without having any.
Btw, i live in arabic country with conservative culture. Marriage and having children is a must for everybody and people don't even dare to discuss such topics. What do you think guys?
Then start breaking the cycle in your family through you by being vocal and sharing your decision to them.
They will understand you no matter what they think of it.