The main thing is that there must be an intention to want to change so that there is a desire to fight tirelessly and this has been done before someone gets married. Because when the struggle that is not easy has become a habit in our own lives, of course when we are married there will be no complaints as long as there is still a way to keep fighting as usual. So the things that can be used as a sector of encouragement to be able to continue to be motivated in fighting are additional menus that are already present in life because basically we ourselves already have the intention to change our lives through the struggle process.
Everyone has intentions but sometimes what makes it difficult for them when they want to start and that is influenced by laziness, to change life for the better must have the desire of each individual. Likewise with choosing a life partner and a person's reflection will determine their partner. So if you want to get a good partner, then we must also be kind beforehand, as life goes on. A partner can determine a person's steps in life and if we want to try to be better then the partner we will get will also be good. The process of life must be prepared because we will not get success or a partner as we want without struggle.