Today, if men can't give money or stay at home, most people will look them as a failed husband. You can stay at home, but make sure you brings money or you work outside even you didn't earn enough.
why?
societies priorities are all twisted
if a person can make money at home and have the possibility to spend quality time with their children, what is wrong with that?
not many things are more purposeful than aiding a human being develop, learn and grow into a good adult.
When I said it was wrong? I said, you can, but make sure you make money at home instead of becoming a full time househusband.
I didn't think about life partner's are financial decisions. Life isn't about savings & pensions it's about spending it with the best life partner because it affect our finances. We're making financial decisions for our future & thinking about how we're going to get a better life.
Look, if you get a partner who always adopt "you only live once" lifestyle and you're someone who always think about the future, you guys will not able to achieve an agreement of making financial decision.
It's a financial decision because you're looking for someone who have the same/similar lifestyle like you.
You can't regret marrying the wrong person so don't do it. Marriage isn't easy it's a long term commitment. There's many financial decisions ppl are making in marriages so you'll have to marry the best partner.
That's what on women minds, make sure to marry the best. In reality, the best is only for the best, so instead of finding the best partner, make yourself to be the best first.