Quote from: Apocollapse on June 06, 2025, 09:50:27 AM

Quote from: l3pox on June 05, 2025, 09:32:18 PM

Quote from: Apocollapse on June 05, 2025, 06:46:38 PM

Today, if men can't give money or stay at home, most people will look them as a failed husband. You can stay at home, but make sure you brings money or you work outside even you didn't earn enough.

why?
societies priorities are all twisted
if a person can make money at home and have the possibility to spend quality time with their children, what is wrong with that?
not many things are more purposeful than aiding a human being develop, learn and grow into a good adult.

When I said it was wrong? I said, you can, but make sure you make money at home instead of becoming a full time househusband.

Quote from: arabspaceship123 on June 05, 2025, 07:54:49 PM

I didn't think about life partner's are financial decisions. Life isn't about savings & pensions it's about spending it with the best life partner because it affect our finances. We're making financial decisions for our future & thinking about how we're going to get a better life.

Look, if you get a partner who always adopt "you only live once" lifestyle and you're someone who always think about the future, you guys will not able to achieve an agreement of making financial decision.

It's a financial decision because you're looking for someone who have the same/similar lifestyle like you.

Quote from: arabspaceship123 on June 06, 2025, 09:02:34 AM

You can't regret marrying the wrong person so don't do it. Marriage isn't easy it's a long term commitment. There's many financial decisions ppl are making in marriages so you'll have to marry the best partner.

That's what on women minds, make sure to marry the best. In reality, the best is only for the best, so instead of finding the best partner, make yourself to be the best first.

On the time that you do made out some relationship with other gender then its part of that is to know the qualities that your partner would have on which most of the time on where you would be that preferring on having on the same insight and perspective in life but since life isnt perfect then there would be those situations that you might be considering out on trying to accept into those qualities or traits on which will be that opposite on what you are that wanting into. So this would be situational because not all will be having that kind of approach on things and just that accept just because we do know that love could conquers all and it doesnt matter whether it oppose into your ideals but at least you have that get someone on whom you do like. On the moment or time that you do deal up with marriage then this is a lifetime commitment. This isnt something that you can just that simply involved with and then quit up later on just because you cant be able to bare up into the trait on which your partner has. When choosing up your partner then you would be able to marry someone on whom you do see that fits out your taste but of course we cant be perfect on which there would those exemptions because we do know that love moves in mysterious ways on which there's no other things that could stop you at the time that you do fell in love. Therefore, it will be that situational into this aspect because not all would be having on the same approach when it comes to this. We do have our own ways on how we do handle our lives on which basing up with the preferences and on what we do have. There might be those exemptions but of course not all the time we will be ending up on a good relationship status. Most of the time those true traits and behaviors usually comes out at the time that you would be together for a couple of years but as we do all know that not all will be able to know earlier but it doesnt mean that we will be having that annulment just because we cant be able to do such thing. There are those conditions or times that we do want to give up but not all the time since we are thriving to make our relationship making out adjustments accordingly.